A lawyer’s psychological notes

Be perplexed

In a hurry for more than 30 years, looking back on the past, I didn’t realize that I was nearly 40 years old. However, my mind has never been as old as my years, and I should have started to relax. I still feel confused and I feel wasted every year. In particular, when I was young, I divided my life into three periods, that is, when I saw flowers, when I saw flowers, when I saw flowers, when I saw flowers, especially when I saw flowers. Now it seems that, although there is an appearance of childishness, there is still something to be desired, regardless of age. I’m a layman, and I don’t know where I am now. Maybe I feel like I’m going through a time when I’m not a flower.

Lawyer Zhang Shun

Keep your mood

Therefore, when confused, it is necessary to read to remove confusion, and also to stabilize the mind. It happened that there was a book at hand. It was Confucius’ The Analects of Confucius who opened the book to read it. After reading it briefly, I felt that the original familiar text had added a different interpretation from my own experience. Just take the “Three Provinces of Our Day” in the “Learning and Writing” recited at a young time as an example. In just 25 words, it is a self discipline that seems simple to the public, private and self but belongs to a very high standard. Put yourself in the present and admit that your laziness has not disappeared, which is hard to reach. The difficulty lies not in one day, but in perseverance. Constant perseverance and perseverance are bright in any era. Even if they may be buried in the mud of the times, they will not be reduced. Although it is important to think that the external evaluation of a person’s life is important, the self affirmation is more important than the former. It is not only related to the direction of the mind, but also affects the conduct of the Tao. If there is a slight difference, it is easy to go astray, but difficult to return to the Tao.

As an old saying goes, one slip of the road leads to eternal hatred. Personal cognition theory, as a professional lawyer, should always keep a good perspective. Because professional reasons often seek solutions for their respective parties in the whirlpool of interests. After a long time, people who have a clear relationship between public and private will be more or less suffering from emotions. However, this phenomenon will continue to accumulate and strengthen as the business development leads to more clear understanding of the deep social rules or more important contacts of secrets. Although not all dragon slayers will turn into evil dragons, those who gaze into the abyss must be prepared to face the abyss and look back. In addition, the real life is also mixed with various pressures such as survival, life, work, interpersonal communication, etc., so after constantly exploring various balance points, I set a defense line rule for myself in advance as “not to lose to myself, not to lose to others”.

In my opinion, trust between people is precious. Based on this, I cherish the trust given to me by each customer, as well as the friendship and fate that each customer has transformed from their working relationship. Always be cautious about the commitments you have made, and go all out for the commitments you have made, because in my opinion, this is not only the respect and responsibility for others, but also the attitude and persistence towards yourself. As for the accumulation of negative emotions and distractions, let’s wait for the years to melt.

Future

Life is full of unknowns and uncertainties. I don’t know the order of good luck and bad luck, which comes first and comes later. Maybe they will go with me, or they will never come. Foolish as I am, I don’t know whether there is a script in this world that belongs to me, but even if there is no script, it is a good choice to be my own protagonist. However, it is still necessary for me to stick to the principle of living up to my heart. At this point of writing, I feel a little less confused. I think it would be better to let nature take its course and cherish it rather than to be uneasy and hesitant.

To be honest, I am still satisfied with my current work. I can look forward to meeting new challenges every day. I need to enrich my knowledge base to deal with different things all the time. At the same time, I also like the current law firms. The Chinese law firms’ attitude towards customers, which is characterized by their accumulation of information, accumulation of wealth, and conscientiousness and responsibility, is consistent with my concept. Finally, if I am asked what kind of person I want to be, maybe I want to be loyal and keep the modesty and retreat. If I have to be loyal, I will not give up.

Zhonghua Starry Sky

There are many shining stars in the starry sky of Zhonghua. She/they are professional, serious, sharp, humorous, funny, cute, mature and wise, and in their prime.

She/They are the soul and stars of Zhonghua.